Stay Safe while swinging.
When you are arranging to meet someone from the site for the first time, choose a public location such as a bar, a club or a restaurant.
We have not met the other members, so we cannot guarantee that they are good to meet.
If you are going alone, make a note of where you are going and who you are meeting and let a friend know - you don't need to say yoou are going swinging!
If you are supposed to be meeting a couple but only the man arrives, find out where the lady is, if she is running late that is OK, but if she is suddenly sick, or the man says he will take you to her, re-arrange the meeting and talk to the woman on the phone..
Use a condom, it is the only way to be sure you will not catch a STI/STD.
If the other person does not want to use one they are being unreasonable.
Wait until you know the person well before going bareback. It is your health you are gambling with.
Always carry some condoms with you so that you are always prepared.
Do not pay anyone on the site to meet you.
Do not pay bus fares, train fares or plane tickets for someone to come and meet you. People asking for money for transport are usually running a scam on you.
Membership fees can only be paid through the official upgrade page on the website. If anyone asks you for card details do not provide them, even if they say they work for the site. No staff member will ask you for this information in a message, or in an email or on the telephone.